If there are better days than spending it with your son, on a dirtbike or at the beach, let me know, because I haven’t ever found one.  Daniel, my youngest hero, has taught me that a well timed ‘No’ is more powerful than 10 ‘Yeses’ (e.g., Me: “Are you sure you don’t want a snack?  You did a heck of a ride out here.”  Daniel: “No, I don’t want to get anything too expensive.”).  Well played my man [scene: Dad going for the $20 in his wallet].